You might not find some of my suggestions about the best way best to get pregnant in any medical texts. Phase 3. rearing the child. Phase 3 takes years. Phase 2 takes months. Phase 1 takes minutes. Doing every part together, man and woman united in purpose, reduces the burdens and increases the joys for you , for the child, and for your family. For right now, let us concentrate on Phase 1: how to get pregnant, knowingly and care-fully.

Let’s start

We’re not starting from order. We’re beginning with the single most important thing for you to realize and focus on. This information might be new to some of you. It comes to me through my spiritual/metaphysical studies, including the bible, the Edgar Cayce readings, and the Human Design material. The Human Design System is channeled material about understanding our life on earth in a physical body. You might have seen videos of an ovum surrounded by sperms beating on the outside to get in.

Microscopic examination shows us that at some stage the egg itself opens to let in a selected sperm, the blessed one. Human Design indicates that the selected sperm has actually obtained an energetic impulse from the planet’s life force, giving it that extra oomph or spark which sets it apart from the rest of the ones knocking on the door. So this system implies that the boon of Life itself comes from deep inside the soul of Gaia, the earth. Compare this to the channeled information from the Edgar Cayce readings, which suggests that, while menstruation is a law of nature, conception is a law of God. It’s not simply a physiological union of egg and sperm.

Take into account

Something more is occurring. Both these sources refer to conception as an energetically increased dynamic, in other words, a force or energy or power greater than ourselves with control over conception. Doesn’t that help us understand the uphill challenge of in vitro fertilization? A random sperm with no spark, forcibly injected into an egg, does not have a opportunity. It has not been”blessed,” if you will, by a power or force greater than the physical elements.

So now you decide – that feels better for you? Whether you resonate to”the spirit of Life,””the boon in the ground,” or “a law of God,” clearly we must recognize that something additional is going on when the egg accepts a specific semen, something quite beyond a single sperm beating down the door before the other ones could get in. My suggestion for you would be that you spiritualize your thoughts about having a baby.

You’re, of course, growing your own family, continuing your ancestral lineage; at precisely the exact same time you’re contributing to your family and taking your places on the Great Wheel of Life, as the Native Americans would say. That’s why I’ve put this section ‘the blessing of Life itself’ first: to allow you to know how special – sacred, if you will – this effort for you to get pregnant is.


It’s more than you, more than a woman and a man. It’s co-creating on a really substantial level. And I need more than anything that you take this to heart and love what a blessing making a new life actually is. It’s both of you, and something different, call it what you will. Now, however you choose to pray/worship/meditate/harmonize your hearts and thoughts, I believe you can optimize your chances of successful conception by connecting to the heart and head of Life/God/Allah/Buddha/Spirit/Love/the Force.

Choose to reside on a higher level, a more spiritual or enlightened level from now on. This is the secret to the way to get pregnant – increasing your vibrations to bring that special Life spark for conception. Practice this together while you’re doing the proposals in Part I for the woman and Part II for the guy. It is reasonable that the egg and the environment where it will flourish as a fetus – needs to be healthy for you to get pregnant and to be pregnant. Also preventing or restricting the harmful elements in the diet – such as processed foods, fast foods, , drugs, , and high- corn syrup – strengthens and enlivens your reproductive system and your entire body.

Speaking of strength, you will feel a whole lot better while pregnant if you go into it feeling stronger. Consider a mix of daily moves – such as swimming, , yoga, light weights – to put your body into a much better shape than it already is. Let’s also think about the quantity of chemical we have consumed from a lot of our processed foods, in our , and in our surroundings.

Stress factor

Due to the accumulation of stresses and toxins in our systems, it might be a great idea to give yourself a set of abdominal castor oil packs to cleanse the gut cells and purify the new baby’s first home surroundings – your belly. You may also want to check out some colon cleansing programs to help this along. Get 2, one for all you. A pack is excellent for all ten sessions, which will provide you with great cleansing results. Doing a set of 10 packs over five (5) weeks, carrying two packs a week, will enhance your reproductive system’s overall health, in addition to your own eliminations and immune system function.

Packs take less than one hour. They’re a bit on the messy side but is pregnancy and so is birth and so is rearing a kid and living a life. So just do it. Taking these steps, knowingly, can raise your vibrational levels and increase the physical energy of your reproductive system and your whole body. I encourage you to have a few self-nurturing weeks to prepare and’fertilize’ your internal garden for developing a healthy, new beautiful baby. The identical healthful guidelines will be useful for increasing your energy levels, also, men, in addition to doing the collection of castor oil packs – and why not do them with your mate?

How valuable it would be for the both of you to be taking all of the measures to consciously co-create a brand new life! Also for you, ease up on tight trousers and panties. Try wearing boxer shorts or underwear with legs for the months you’re getting ready to get pregnant. Give your blood flow the liberty to maneuver through your reproductive tissues and deliver that life-giving nourishment and cleansing where it is most needed. Phase 3 Getting Pregnant only takes minutes and Phase 2 Being Pregnant takes weeks. So is not it worth just a little preparation now for you to be really healthy and ready? We are, after all, talking about a miracle.

What to do?

Do anything you can to elevate your energy to bring that special blessing of Life’s impulse. Take a month or two of cleansing, superior diet, increasing your vibrations. Some time before you actually make love, sit for a while on the ground. I’m getting a picture of your legs wrapped around a tree or large shrub. Then meditate on or envision the roots going down into the ground, going down to the center or the very heart of the earth herself, and there beseeching the boon of existence from Mother Earth.

You may imagine the spark of heavenly life flowing up throughout the ground into your testicles. You might actually feel that happening. However it happens, this is a soulful and prayerful time for you. Of course you’ll be wanting to know what’s the peak time for childbirth, whether by assessing a calendar, taking your temperature, or only sensing when the body is prepared. Before sexual intercourse, put a pillow under the woman’s hips.

This elevation when lying on her back helps gravity to allow more sperms to get up to the cervix and into the uterus compared to most other positions. Only 1 man’gets the goods’ but you need to be certain he does get there. The purpose now is to fill out the vagina with sperms initially, with the guy’s orgasm, and after that, make the woman’s orgasm. This way, the majority of the accessible sperms can be pumped up into the uterus as it spasms together with the selected one. For the man, it is ideal for him to rotate his hips in a circular motion.

Final note

Moving in and out causes the penis to relax fairly soon after orgasm and this isn’t what you want. You need to be able to have the guy’s orgasm first, but still have the ability to produce the woman’s orgasm afterwards, to pull the sperms into the uterus. Circular rotation will let you get the orgasm without losing a lot of the erection. If the erection doesn’t last long enough for the female’s orgasm to happen, you know other ways to give her what she needs. For some time later, the woman should remain with the pillow under her buttocks while the sperms travel up into the uterus. At this moment, you can relax together in love and , praying that you have received”the great one” and can get pregnant. Talk about this together. Visualize it happening. Look forward with excitement and joy to Phase 2: Being Pregnant. Then the newly formed zygote takes approximately five days to travel into the uterus and attach to the walls to the next phase of growth. So for the girl, it is probably best to not do much kick-boxing or BMX or higher diving within the next week, right?